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I had a conversation with my daughter yesterday about a crappy experience that I had with ToysRUs. I'd placed an order for Xmas stuff for my grandkids, my account had been charged for it, it had been shipped...but one important item was missing. I called the company yesterday to inquire about the missing item, and after being on hold over thirty minutes I finally had the pleasure of speaking with Nicky. The 'bottom-line' of our conversation was that the item was back-ordered, it could arrive tomorrow or next month, and if I cancelled it my account would be credited within 7-10 business days...but unfortunately she didn't have the authorization to give me a confirmation number to substantiate that our conversation had ever taken place. WHAT????

My daughter commiserated, and told me that her pet-peeves were people that didn't hold a door open when they saw her coming; (this is a woman with a double-stroller with two babies in it), people that don't hold the door open for other 'challenged-folks' like the elderly, the impaired, etc., and employees at drive-thrus that are just too darned busy to say hello, thanks for your business that's enabling me to have a paycheck, or acknowledge you in any way.

Jeez people, has our society really gotten so uncaring that the mere idea of 'quality of service', 'customer respect', and just plain old good manners have become oxymorons? If it truly has, then I strongly suggest that all parents be sent to 'Bringing Up a Civilized Child 101' immediately. I don't remember anyone telling me as a child that being polite & considerate was the way to conduct myself...I just learned it by observing others.

Okay, that's my rant for the evening. Hugs to all.

Posted by Nitemoves at 9:31 PM - 19 Comments   Add a Comment  
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Good Rant!...After all We should Treat Others as We wish to be Treated...It's just Common Sense...  
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by lilladyreg (PM , CC ) on Tuesday December 12, 2006 @ 10:03 PM




Thanks Liladyreg...common-sense is another missing ingredient in our society I'm sad to say. I guess that we just do what we can at passing on the best of what we have, and hope for the best; do you agree?

Thanks for visiting my blog. When it 'grows up' maybe it will be as cool as yours!
 
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by Nitemoves (PM , CC ) on Tuesday December 12, 2006 @ 11:07 PM




Amen to that....
Proper manners is the parents' responsibility...
It all starts at home..
We should be polite to our children by saying thank you and please and they will in return have manners.
 
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by Lucy. (PM , CC ) on Friday December 15, 2006 @ 8:02 PM




Hey you, like have said before, parents are not raising children, they are raising parents.
The future of the young is in the hands of the elders, I can't tell you how many times a day I want to grab a kid and say where is your parents, I want to smack 'em, because they are the problem, not the kids.
Every time I see an adult being rude or having no manners, I think, please don't reproduce, and if you do, let a parent raise them for you!
I was raised by parents, not just adults..
HLH, J
 
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by Lucy. (PM , CC ) on Thursday December 28, 2006 @ 10:14 PM




Excellent point! Great post.  
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by Lucy. (PM , CC ) on Friday December 29, 2006 @ 3:52 AM




i don't blame you a bit for venting, what crap!
kindness should work for everyone.
guess some missed that class and emotion.
judio
 
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by Lucy. (PM , CC ) on Monday January 1, 2007 @ 1:08 AM




Nitemoves, you got that right on! I was at the grocery store one time, and my Son, (Grandson who is 10 and has Down Syndrome) said excuse me to an elderly lady, so he could get to some cupcake's. She looked at him, moved and he said Thank you. As we were moving on, he said excuse me again to get by an elderly gentelman. (They were in line at the deli-counter.) The man moved and Kurdt said Thank you again. The man didn't reply. At that moment another elderly woman spoke up and said over the crowd "Look's like our generation could learn some manner's from his generation!"
I was so proud of him. Maybe someday, this manner's thing will catch on again, but I won't hold my breath.
 
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by Bones (PM , CC ) on Monday January 8, 2007 @ 3:08 PM




I am so understanding your post. Right on sista  
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by Angie (PM , CC ) on Monday January 8, 2007 @ 5:27 PM




Strollers: A few years back, I too was a mom of three kids, two years apart and I had to negotiate doors plenty of times! I came across some nice people and some not so nice people...people that would help and some who would totally ignore me.

I for one ALWAYS help a mom with a stroller...they say thank you with such a sincere tone! Most times, the mom is haggard and flustered and looking like she's on her last nerve!

I always say,..."You're welcome...been there and done that!!"

They sometimes laugh this weak, half hearted laugh as they shove and pull and tug at their mini Mac truck of a stroller!

I always think to myself,.."Better you than me!"

And I think it with a sincere tone! I really AM glad it's you than me!

I do feel compassion....it hasn't been THAT long ago...maybe 15 years ago....

wait, that is a long time...

I stand corrected...where has the time gone?!

-pr-
 
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